

Deborah F., Lawyer
"An iconic and brilliant work that will fundamentally change the way OCD is viewed forever. David sets out in a very clear and concise manner the structured steps and actions which will enable a person to escape the hopelessness, pain, despair and exhaustion of the cycle they are trapped in."
Imtiaz Uddin, Reader
"I feel like the book carries a very powerful message—that OCD is not something that is manageable, it is fully recoverable, and through the right techniques and process, you can be free from OCD."
Anton B., Program Participant
"My perfectionist urges have decreased significantly... I no longer feel the urge and get lost in doing that compulsive practice. It was a vicious cycle trap, and to let go of it was a big step for me in my freedom from OCD journey."
A Reader
"An extraordinary testament of the strength of spirit... and a clear, structured framework for healing."


Deborah F., Lawyer
"An iconic and brilliant work that will fundamentally change the way OCD is viewed forever. David sets out in a very clear and concise manner the structured steps and actions which will enable a person to escape the hopelessness, pain, despair and exhaustion of the cycle they are trapped in."
Imtiaz Uddin, Reader
"I feel like the book carries a very powerful message—that OCD is not something that is manageable, it is fully recoverable, and through the right techniques and process, you can be free from OCD."
Anton B., Program Participant
"My perfectionist urges have decreased significantly... I no longer feel the urge and get lost in doing that compulsive practice. It was a vicious cycle trap, and to let go of it was a big step for me in my freedom from OCD journey."
A Reader
"An extraordinary testament of the strength of spirit... and a clear, structured framework for healing."
ERP. Medication. Therapy.
And it helped—to a point.
You're functional. You hold down a job. You maintain relationships. You look "together" on the outside.
The best anyone has offered you is "learning to live with it."
Management. Coping. A lifetime sentence dressed up as success.
They never explained why certain thoughts generated such unbearable urgency.
Even iCBT's own practitioners admit there's a "persistent undercurrent"—an unease that remains even when you successfully stay out of the OCD bubble.
That undercurrent is the signal they can't reach.
OCD isn't driven by thoughts. It's driven by beliefs.
Underneath every compulsion is a Core Limiting Belief—a deep, embodied conviction like:
"I am bad."
"I am not enough."
"I am powerless."
These beliefs generate unbearable feelings in your body.
The compulsion is your mind's desperate attempt to get relief from that feeling.
And here's the trap:
When the compulsion brings relief, it reinforces the original belief.
This is why you're stuck.
Not because you haven't tried hard enough.
I spent over a decade trying everything.
The worst was a compulsion to shave my head every ten days. I knew it was irrational. I couldn't stop.
One day, outside the barbershop, I broke down completely.
That was the moment I asked a different question.
Not "How do I resist this?"
But "What would I have to believe about myself to feel this desperate need?"
The answer cracked everything open.

→ As beliefs weaken, acceptance becomes easier.
→ As acceptance develops, deeper belief work becomes possible.

— Deborah F., Lawyer
"I feel like the book carries a very powerful message—that OCD is not something that is manageable, it is fully recoverable, and through the right techniques and process, you can be free from OCD."
— Imtiaz U., Reader
"My perfectionist urges have decreased significantly... I no longer feel the urge and get lost in doing that compulsive practice. It was a vicious cycle trap, and to let go of it was a big step for me in my freedom from OCD journey."
— Anton B., Program Participant
"An extraordinary testament of the strength of spirit... and a clear, structured framework for healing."
🚫 Want a quick fix without doing the inner work
🚫 Are looking for another coping strategy to add to the pile
🚫 Believe OCD is just something you have to live with forever
🚫 Aren't willing to feel uncomfortable emotions as part of the process
🚫 Want a quick fix without doing the inner work
🚫 Are looking for another coping strategy to add to the pile
🚫 Believe OCD is just something you have to live with forever
🚫 Aren't willing to feel uncomfortable emotions as part of the process

David Laing is closing the gap between what people with OCD are told is possible—and what actually is.
The standard message: OCD is chronic. Learn to cope. This is your life now.
David spent a decade inside that system. ERP. Medication. Therapy. It helped him function—but it never set him free.
So he spent many years figuring out what the traditional approaches were missing. What he found: OCD isn't driven by thoughts. It's driven by core limiting beliefs. Transform those beliefs, and the compulsions become unnecessary.
David achieved complete recovery. He's not a licensed therapist—he's someone who refused to accept "lifelong management" as the ceiling.
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